The Power of One Conversation: How Veterans Can Change Military Policy
- Kirk Carlson
- Oct 16
- 3 min read
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Every major movement in history started the same way — with a conversation. One person sharing an experience that makes another stop, listen, and care. For veterans, that power is multiplied by service, sacrifice, and the moral authority that comes from living the very policies they seek to change.
In the campaign for #ReasonableRanks, that truth sits at the heart of everything we do: one veteran’s story can move mountains — but only if it’s told, shared, and heard.
🗣️ Why Conversations Matter More Than Campaigns
Political scientists Donald Green and Alan Gerber, in their landmark book Get Out the Vote, proved something revolutionary: personal contact is the single most effective way to create change. Face-to-face engagement outperforms advertisements, emails, and social media posts combined.
Why? Because people don’t change because of slogans — they change because of trust.
When a veteran sits across from a legislator, a college student, or a city council member and says, “Here’s what happened to me when I was injured,” it’s no longer an abstract policy. It becomes human, urgent, and real.
That’s how empathy turns into reform. That’s how policies start to shift.
💡 From Data to Dialogue
The #ReasonableRanks campaign is built on this principle. We know that veterans are not asking for handouts — they’re asking for reasonable accommodations. They’re asking the Department of Defense to modernize outdated discharge procedures so that injured but willing service members can continue serving in other capacities rather than being dismissed.
One story can change a policy meeting.
Ten stories can change a committee hearing.
A hundred stories — told with courage and clarity — can change the law.
Every time a veteran shares their experience with a local official, a news outlet, or another veteran who thought they were alone, it multiplies momentum.
🔍 How to Start the Conversation
You don’t need a microphone or a media team. You only need sincerity and courage.
Here’s how you can start today:
Share your story — whether it’s with a neighbor, a teacher, or a city council member.
Connect it to the mission — explain why #ReasonableRanks matters to thousands like you.
Invite participation — ask them to sign the petition, share the link, or attend an event.
Follow up — one conversation isn’t the end; it’s the beginning of a relationship.
The more personal the interaction, the greater the impact. That’s not just theory — it’s data.
🔧 Building a Culture of Courage
Covenant of Courage and its partners are training veterans and young leaders to use these principles of evidence-based advocacy — to replace frustration with focused civic action. Every workshop, speaking event, and campus outreach table is a chance to model the same leadership veterans once lived in uniform.
Because leadership doesn’t end with service — it evolves. It becomes the voice that says, “We can fix this.”
⚖️ From Policy to People
The policies that define military service were written by people — and they can be rewritten by people, too. Every veteran who chooses to speak up is reshaping not only the narrative of disability and discharge, but also the future of those who will serve after them.
When one veteran speaks, others find their voice.
When one city listens, others follow.
And when enough of us unite around fairness, compassion, and reason — the system must evolve.
That’s the power of one conversation.
📬 Join the Movement
Support the campaign for reform. Share your story. Sign the petition. Help us bring compassion and common sense back into military policy.
🖊 Sign the Petition: https://chng.it/5yXYvkBtMR
🌐 Learn More: www.covenantofcourage.com
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