When You’re in Group 7 and Your Friend’s in Group 3 — Awkward!
- Kirk Carlson
- 12 minutes ago
- 2 min read
By JLBC Cadet Corps & Covenant of Courage
Building Strong Leaders, One Squad at a Time.
Let’s be honest — navigating friendships while leveling up your life can be… complicated.
You joined Group 7 because you’re hungry for more. You’re focused on leadership, self-discipline, purpose, and resilience. You’re not afraid to sweat, learn, fail, try again, and take ownership. You’re waking up early, serving your community, training your body and mind, and stepping up as a leader.
But your best friend?
They’re still in Group 3 — stuck in the “it’s not that serious,” “I’ll do it tomorrow,” or “why try?” mindset.
So What’s the Difference?
Group 3 folks might be fun to hang out with. But when it’s time to show up, step up, and do hard things, they often ghost the mission. They blame others, play it safe, avoid growth, and stay in their comfort zone.
Group 7 members are different.
They run toward the fire.
They train when no one’s watching.
They lead by example — not for praise, but because it’s right.
It doesn’t mean Group 7 is “better” — it just means they’ve made a decision:
💥 “I will not stay average.”
💥 “I will not waste my potential.”
💥 “I will become someone others can count on.”
What Happens to the Friendship?
It’s tough.
You still care about your friend.
But you might notice:
Different priorities
Awkward conversations
Less motivation to hang out
A gap growing between your values
That’s okay.
Growth often requires separation.
Sometimes, you moving to Group 7 will inspire others to follow. Sometimes it won’t. But the truth is:
“You can’t stay in the shallow end and expect deep results.”
Keep Rising — With or Without Them
If you’re reading this and you’re already in Group 7, stay focused. Stay humble. Keep your integrity. And leave the door open for others to grow when they’re ready.
If you’re still in Group 3, no judgment — but it’s time to ask yourself:
👉 What’s holding you back?
👉 Are your excuses stronger than your dreams?
👉 Do you want to be remembered as someone who could have… or someone who did?
🟦 Group 7 isn’t for everyone.
But it is for anyone willing to endure, rise, lead, and serve.
Join us.
🖊 Sign the petition: https://chng.it/5yXYvkBtMR
🌐 Learn more: www.covenantofcourage.com
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